Modern Masculinity: A Guide for Men

Modern Masculinity seeks to help men of all ages build a strong masculine identity. We have all heard about the sorry state of modern men and the “crisis” in masculinity. This isn’t a book about how we got here. It’s a book about where we go next. This book describes the basic elements of modern masculine life. It explains how we can get respect for masculinity in a culture that constantly devalues it. It also outlines ways in which you can have productive conversations in which you and other men are treated with respect. Part I assesses the state of modern masculinity and outlines three steps to help you develop confidence in yourself as masculine men, including experimenting with various martial arts. Part II is about walking the walk. These chapters outline short-term and long-term strategies, including rites of passage, that will remind you of your masculine identity and help you make it stronger. Part III is about talking the talk. These chapters suggest ways in which you can shape and guide discussions that build masculine identity and promote respect for men, bringing positive ideas about manhood forward. Part IV takes the form of a Q & A. These chapters relate masculinity to traditions and trends, asking questions you might have about modern masculinity and questions you might be asked. Topics include patriotism, patriarchy, civil rights, and others. Part V includes a summary, acknowledgments, and references to a wide range of posts, articles, and books about modern masculinity and men in today’s world. Modern masculinity is a big topic, and this is a short book. It has been designed as a guide, not a comprehensive account. It provides handy references to a wide range of recent posts, articles, and books about men and feminism. Modern Masculinity aims to help you stand up for men in the modern world by standing up for yourself.