If Only You People Could Follow Directions

A Memoir

**“****A quirkily mesmerizing debut memoir about a dysfunctional family wracked by alcoholism and drug addiction. Bittersweet and wryly funny.” —**O, The Oprah Magazine
 
*If Only You People Could Follow Directions *is a spellbinding debut by Jessica Hendry Nelson. In linked autobiographical essays, Nelson has reimagined the memoir with her thoroughly original voice, fearless writing, and hypnotic storytelling. At its center, the book is the story of three people: Nelson’s mother Susan, her brother Eric, and Jessica herself. These three characters are deeply bound to one another, not just by the usual ties of blood and family, but also by a mother’s drive to keep her children safe in the midst of chaos.
 
The book begins with Nelson’s childhood in the suburbs of Philadelphia and chronicles her father’s addiction and death, her brother’s battle with drugs and mental illness, her own efforts to find and maintain stability, and her mother’s exquisite power, grief, and self-destruction in the face of such a complicated family dynamic. Each chapter in the book contends with a different relationship—friends, lovers, and strangers are all in play—but at its heart the book is about family, the ties that bind and enrich and betray us, and how one young woman sought to survive and rise above her surroundings.
 
“A kaleidoscopic look at the way abuse resonates down through generations like a bell . . . unflinchingly honest.” —Elle
 
“Nelson’s voice is assertive and meaningful, with moments of wry wit and despair . . . her refreshing style makes the essays meld together with grace and fluidity.” —Philadelphia City Paper
 
“Gradual revelation and occasional surprise make these essays fresh and startling.” —The Boston Globe