Bill Eddy: 17 books
by Bill Eddy
Language: English
Release Date: May 21, 2019
Language: English
Release Date: May 21, 2019
Bestselling author, therapist, lawyer, and mediator Bill Eddy describes how dangerous, high-conflict personalities have gained power in governments worldwide—and what citizens can do to keep these people out of office.
Democracy is under siege. The reason isn't politics but personalities:...
Don't Alienate the Kids!
Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High Conflict Divorce
Language: English
Release Date: March 30, 2012
Don't Alienate the Kids! is a fresh examination of the child alienation problem from the perspective of a lawyer/therapist/mediator, who also trains judges on managing high-conflict disputes. Author Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., doesn't just analyze the debate (Parental Alienation Syndrome vs. Child Abuse Presumption);...
It's All Your Fault!
12 Tips for Managing People Who Blame Others for Everything
Language: English
Release Date: February 21, 2012
This is Bill Eddy's book filled with lots of practical methods for handling High Conflict People (HCPs) in any setting, including neighbor disputes, workplace conflicts, family battles, with strangers, etc. HCPs target those close to them and people in positions of authority, so in this book Bill focuses...
The Future of Family Court
Structure, Skills and Less Stress
Language: English
Release Date: August 15, 2012
The Future of Family Court is designed for judicial officers with an emphasis on applying lessons learned from the field of mental health to the family court system, especially when working with parents with personality disorders or traits. Written from Bill Eddy’s perspective as a family lawyer and...
Splitting
Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Language: English
Release Date: July 1, 2011
Protect Yourself from Manipulation, False Accusations, and Abuse
Divorce is difficult under the best of circumstances. When your spouse has borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), or is manipulative, divorcing can be especially complicated. While people...
It's All Your Fault at Work!
Managing Narcissists and Other High-Conflict People
Language: English
Release Date: January 20, 2015
No, it’s not just your imagination—more and more people in the workplace today have high-conflict personalities. Co-workers, clients, even bosses are behaving in narcissistic or bullying ways, choosing targets and then placing blame on them, treating them with disdain, or otherwise acting in aggressive,...
by Bill Eddy
Language: English
Release Date: September 1, 2016
Language: English
Release Date: September 1, 2016
People with high conflict personalities (HCPs) clog our courts as plaintiffs with inappropriate claims against their personal "targets of blame," and as defendants who have harmed others and need to be stopped. Everybody knows someone with a High Conflict Personality. "How can he be so unreasonable?"...
5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life
Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other High-Conflict Personalities
Language: English
Release Date: February 6, 2018
Some difficult people aren’t just hard to deal with—they’re dangerous.
Do you know someone whose moods swing wildly? Do they act unreasonably suspicious or antagonistic? Do they blame others for their own problems?
When a high-conflict person has one of five common personality...
Dating Radar
Why Your Brain Says Yes To "The One" Who Will Make Your Life Hell
Language: English
Release Date: July 21, 2017
Why do so many of us commit to the wrong person – sometimes more than once? While most believe that attraction and compatibility are the keys to relationship success, in reality these are red flags in 15-20% of the population. When it comes to love, the brain is irrational and short-sighted. We make...
Biff
Quick Responses to High Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns
Language: English
Release Date: June 1, 2011
We live in an age of rapid change and instant communication. We also live in a Culture of Blame and Disrespect. Managing your responses to high-conflict emails, texts, letters, and social media meltdowns is imperative. A BIFF response can be applied in any communication anywhere - on the Internet, in...
別等到被欺負了才懂這些事: 第一時間就做好衝突管理
It's All Your Fault at Work: Managing Narcissists and Other High-Conflict People
Language: Chinese
Release Date: March 30, 2018
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如今，有高衝突人格傾向的人愈來愈多。正是這些人讓你容易壓力大、情緒差。
什麼是高衝突人格？他們一開始看起來可能很可靠甚至很吸引人，但一旦他們開始用言語攻擊你，或者試圖破壞你的聲譽，就完全變了樣。他們的共同特徵就是「死不認錯、要你負責」，面對這些高衝突人士，有理也講不清，因為最大問題不在問題本身，而在他們的性格障礙：
．他毒舌又愛暴怒，一再嫌你不夠好。
．她眼裡只有老闆，把其他人視為塵土。
．他多疑又自大，你需要他也受不了他。
．她理虧也會爭到底，你沒錯卻要負責。
．他是主管卻迴避下決斷，讓你無所適從、揹黑鍋。
．她存在感超強，而你有意見卻被漠視、被決定……
高衝突人士可能是你的上司、下屬、同事或顧客；也可能是你公司裡最知道如何往上爬、最懂得拉攏人心的高手。別讓這些人毀了你的工作與生活。
其實，解決衝突的根源，就在於找出與這個人相處的方法。你不必改變他，但你可以改變你們之間的關係。
本書提出4大心理技巧╳8型衝突人格實境對話，讓你在第一時間就做好衝突管理！你可以駕馭的矛盾愈大，機會愈多。就算你不確定對方是否有高衝突人格，這套衝突管理法也能幫助你提高溝通效率、建立良好關係。
衝突無所不在，如何做個聰明人？
．架起橋梁︰不反駁、不反對，但也不照單全收
．分析選項︰誰對誰錯不重要，以「一次小贏10%」原則找出最佳解
．有效回應︰抓緊4原則「簡短、充分、友善、堅定」，別掉進情緒漩渦
．設立界限︰確立規則並提出違法後果，改變行為動機才有生機
他們為何欺負你？認清高衝突人士的...
Trump Bubbles
The Dramatic Rise and Fall of High-Conflict Politicians
Language: English
Release Date: May 2, 2016
Trump Bubbles: The Dramatic Rise and Fall of High-Conflict Politicians is the first book to really explain the rise and fall of Donald Trump, candidate for President of the United States of America. What’s a trump bubble? It’s when emotions trump thinking in politics. When fear trumps facts. When...
by Bill Eddy LCSW Esq.
Language: English
Release Date: May 1, 2008
Language: English
Release Date: May 1, 2008
People with High-Conflict Personalities (HCP's) are increasing in our society and in our courts. As litigants, they have a familiar pattern of high-intensity emotions, distortions of information, and self-defeating behavior. Their prolonged disputes are characterized by unchanging hostility, replacement...
New Ways for Families in Divorce or Separation: Professional Guidebook
For Therapists, Lawyers, Judicial Officers and Mediators
Language: English
Release Date: June 21, 2013
New Ways for Families™ is an exciting new method for handling the growing problem of high-conflict families in our courts and out of court, including in Collaborative Divorce and Parenting Coordination cases. It is designed to save courts time, to save parents money, and to protect children as their...
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