Your Life, My Story

For as long as I can remember, I have been exposed to pornography. The older I got, the more exposure I was introduced to. I was very young when it began, and the seed that was planted continued to grow, even into my adulthood. The same schemes that were played on me, I played on men. I became addicted to sex at a young age because I thought it meant "I love you." Women oftentimes look for love from other men, if not older men, because they didn't get the love and affection from their natural father. Daddy's little girl is a powerful statement! Father's should be an example of the type of men that they want their little girls to marry. Daddies are a little girl's first boyfriend, their first date, their first kiss, and first provider. When daughters grow up without an example, they fall for the first man that gives them attention even if it's unhealthy. Mother's are examples as well. If the natural father isn't involved with the daughter, be wise about the man that you do bring into your daughter's life. Be sure that he is the example that you would want her to pattern her choice after.

Introduce your daughter to the one true Father, God Almighty, who is the author of love. He is love! I allowed God to help me forgive all who wronged me, and forgiveness set me free. Without the renewing of my mind I would still be bound with anger and unforgiveness. God thoroughly washed and cleansed me and now I am able to love unconditionally. "Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for lover covers a multitude of sins" (1 Pet. 4:8).