Womenology 101

My name is Steve Kader. Let me start off by saying that I am not a PUA (pick-up artist.) I am, simply, a man who has travelled extensively and had the privilege of coming in contact with millions of women, over the last two and a half decades. I proudly served my country for nearly 10 years and received very specific training, which has improved my communication skills, greatly. I work on those skills every day and absolutely love it. I am happy to say that I am still learning, on a daily basis. I am a firm believer that you CAN teach an old dog new tricks.
While in the Army, I worked in several different capacities, to include;
* Basic Patrolman
* General Crimes Detective
* Linguist for the Spanish and German Languages
* Hostage Negotiator
* Interview/Interrogations Specialist
* Polygraph (lie detector) Examiner
I was also extensively trained in Body Language, Human Dynamics, and Psychology. All of this knowledge was very practical, when it came to my dealings, with women. And since my honorable discharge, I have received 5 separate certifications in the Hypnosis/Hypnotherapy field, which helped as well.
When I worked with the Chippendales, I was the show’s emcee and manager. I was also a featured dancer and a vocalist. The group consisted of 8-10 gentlemen. All the men, in the show were kick-ass guys who absolutely loved and adored women. I learned a lot from my fellow showmen and we had a lot of amazing experiences. I can undoubtedly say that I’ve seen things that would make Tommie Lee blush. Our show had audiences which were exclusive to women. And believe me, when you have thousands of turned-on women, in the crowd, all on the same sheet of music, the energy is unbelievable. As the show’s emcee, it was my job to open up the show, with an opening monologue, and get the juices flowing. We would have crowds of women, ranging anywhere from hundreds to thousands, per show. The age range would be from 21-99 years old. Believe me when I tell you, women get much crazier than men do, in these types of shows.
Here is an example. Picture a man in a strip club, watching a girl onstage, spinning around a pole to slow seductive music. Generally, his demeanor is cool and calm, as he smoothly places the tip into the garter of the girl. This man will conceal how excited he is and may display a half smile and give a subtle wink to the girl. He remains subdued for two reasons, he doesn’t want to look un-cool or overly anxious and he doesn’t want to overstep his boundaries. Why? Because he thinks he may have a chance with this girl AND because there is a 300lb bouncer within 20 feet of where he is sitting, waiting to pounce on him, if he is inappropriate. Now, here’s how it goes down, when the Chippendales come to your town. Imagine a showroom, VFW hall, or stadium, 100% jam-packed with screaming women for two solid hours. I have invited a few of my friends to check out the show from the side-lines and they all said that they had no idea that women acted that way. I have also done thousands of Private Bachelorette parties and birthday parties, for women and it gets even crazier, at those events. Imagine walking into a room, where women are literally throwing money at you, trying to grab your goodies, flashing their goodies, offering sexual favors, and competing for your attention, the entire night. There is nothing like it. I used it as an opportunity to learn as much as I could. This is the first book of it’s kind to be written by a Chippendale, a word which is synonymous with “expertise on women.”