Relationship issues

WHAT LADIES LIKE

Every lady is unique in her own way. What turns one on may turn the other off. They only fall for guys who discover their soft spots. Ladies need guys that would be their strength where they are weak, their voice where they are silent, helper in time of need and guys that can inspire them. Many ladies prefer guys who spend time with them to share their burden and concerns and also take care of them.

A lady may desire a God-fearing man even if she is not God-fearing. She may want an intelligent guy even if she is a dullard, a wealthy guy though she may be poor. Ladies are so wonderful. If you are not always there, you are not caring. If you are always there you may become boring. Apply wisdom as a man.

Whether black or white, ladies are similar in many ways. They need guys they can trust even if they can’t be trusted. Most ladies need love, care and affection. Whether rich or poor, they need someone to care even if they do not care about you. No matter how strong a lady is, she cannot be a man. They do not like being humiliated. Many ladies want to act like men sometimes, they tend to command, be in charge and control guys. Control them wisely because wisdom is powerful than strength. Ladies love being appreciated, called lovely names and want to be the “only one”. Make them your one and only. If you offend a lady, she would ask, why are you hurting me? If she offends you, she would say; it was a joke.

If you over pamper her, you may spoil her and she may take you for granted. If you are too hard on her, she may hate you and say you are heartless. Be hard when necessary, pamper her wisely and make her feel secured with you. Ladies are not inferior, they are just special. They can make your life better or bitter. As much as you can, treat her like a lady.

I have discovered that many ladies do not want “traditional guys” rather with the tides. No matter how “Spirit Filled” a lady is, she still understands romantic languages which she may make her accept or reject a guy.

A WORD FOR THE GUYS

First of all, let us address the guy: Before going for a lady you are attracted to, it is important you;

1.Develop a bold and confident personality. Be sure of yourself. Try to look a lady in the face.

2.As much as possible, improve on your social life with people. Be friendly but not to the extreme. Let your presence spark some light. Be innovative, be productive and be active.

3.Understand the best way to approach her. Not all ladies accept a date for the first time. As such;

4.Complement her dressing, hair-do and beauty whenever you see her. If she is wrongly dressed, wisely help her correct it.

5.Discover the things she likes and needs as much as you can give her a treat. If she likes music, sing for her. If she likes jokes, make her laugh.

6.Send romantic and love texts, give her a call and if she permits, give her a short visit.

7.Don not be desperate. Take it slowly but persistently.

8.Most ladies do not like desperate guys. Make your intention known to her without fear of rejection. If she says No, ask for her rejection. If she says No, ask for her reason(s). If she gives a genuine one, you may let go but if your instincts tells you to continue or the reason is not satisfactory, persist my friend and do not give up until she gives in.

Read through this book with a flexible mind, digest it until you are full, make necessary adjustments and watch your love life blossom. You deserve nothing less than the best.