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Small Group Bible Study books for your small group:  Real life event with probing questions, bible passages dealing with the event and exercises to follow.  Our journey as Christians is filled with opportunities from God to exercise our Christian freedom.  The choices we make don’t always look the same and the outcomes are different. It is impossible to fathom the mind of God and how he cares for every one of His people, at the same time allowing uniqueness in our oneness.  What a joy to be free and for the Lord to be the Lord of our conscious, not one another.  This event shares the journey and freedom exercised by two Christians who love the Lord with two different temporal outcomes. May you have the confidence and courage to live the life the Lord Jesus Christ has laid out for you personally.