FEMDOM DATING: The Submissive Male's Guide to Attracting Dominant Women
Nonfiction, Family & Relationships, Relationships, Interpersonal Relationships, Love/Romance
| Author: | Slave Dragos | ISBN: | 9781634927888 |
| Publisher: | WellHeeledDominatrix.com | Publication: | June 18, 2018 |
| Imprint: | WellHeeledDominatrix.com | Language: | English |
| Author: | Slave Dragos |
| ISBN: | 9781634927888 |
| Publisher: | WellHeeledDominatrix.com |
| Publication: | June 18, 2018 |
| Imprint: | WellHeeledDominatrix.com |
| Language: | English |
Most men who seek a Dominant woman strike out – over and over again. Why? The answer is simple. They have competition. LOTS of it! For every truly Dominant woman, there are countless men seeking to connect with her. Most of these men are simply ignored. Many of them even get "blocked." This book will explain the reasons why.
As a submissive man, all YOU have to do is be better than the competition. And, IT'S NOT DIFFICULT!
The Domme of your dreams IS out there and a Dominant/submissive relationship IS attainable for you! Stand head and shoulders above the other submissive men who are seeking to bow at her feet. You can easily come out on top using the secrets shared in this book.
Using a business-plan approach, Slave Dragos shares the wisdom he has acquired from over 30 years in the BDSM community, both as an active participant, and an event organizer. You will learn how to easily and successfully attract your perfect Domme.
Interwoven in these easy-to-follow instructions, Dragos shares his own personal experiences, as well as stories from the many Dommes he has known and played with over the years.
And, finally, read actual solicitations received by real Dommes from desperate submissive men on BDSM dating websites – the good, the bad, and the very bad – along with Mistress Oasis' personal comments about each.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
FOREWORD BY MISTRESS OASIS
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
PART I - YOUR SUCCESSFUL FORAY INTO THE REAL BDSM COMMUNITY
CHAPTER 1 - A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE BDSM COMMUNITY
The BDSM Underworld
BDSM Goes Online
Online BDSM Personals
The BDSM Social Juggernaut - FetLife.com
CHAPTER 2 - REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS OF THE BDSM COMMUNITY
CHAPTER 3 - REALITY VS. FANTASY
CHAPTER 4 - THE BIG SECRET? UNDERSTANDING WOMEN!
CHAPTER 5 - DON'T BE "THAT GUY"
CHAPTER 6 - ELIMINATING TUNNEL VISION
Balancing Your Needs with Hers
PART II - PREPARING TO LAUNCH
CHAPTER 7 - TRUMPING THE COMPETITION
CHAPTER 8 - ARE YOU AN UNPOLISHED PRODUCT?
Are You Comfortable with Your Submissive Side?
Physical Fitness
Intellectual Fitness
Spiritual Fitness
Sexual Discipline
CHAPTER 9 - YOUR BUSINESS PLAN
Product
Marketing Strategy
PART III - MARKETING
CHAPTER 10 - ONLINE MARKETING
FetLife.com
Not Having Any Luck Online? Here's Why...
Your Online Profile is Your "Brochure"
Photos
Final Dick Pic Rule – No Exceptions!
What's next?
"Likes," "Loves," and "Thumbs"
Posts, Writings, and Comments
Discussions, Chat Rooms, and Other Public Interactions
CHAPTER 11 - MAKING CONTACT
Messaging Mistresses
THE #1 RULE TO WRITING BETTER "FIRST CONTACT" MESSAGES
The Online Courtship
Keep the Conversation Moving
Moving Toward Your First Meeting
CHAPTER 12 - OFFLINE MARKETING
Entering the Community as a Single Sub-Male
Real Events = Real People
Munches
Conventions
BDSM Clubs
Sponsored and Private Play Parties
Making a Good Physical and Mental Impression at Munches
Lights! Camera!! … MARKET!!!
Interacting Outside of Your Comfort Zone
Real-Time Closing
PART IV - YOUR FIRST ONE-ON-ONE MEETING!
CHAPTER 13 - DON'T SCREW IT ALL UP NOW!
CHAPTER 14 - MOVING FROM FRIENDSHIP TO PLAY PARTNERS...OR SOMETHING MUCH MORE
CHAPTER 15 - NEGOTIATIONS
Keep a Level Head!
Negotiation Points
Health Risks
Status
Safe Calls
Limits
Physical Limits
Mental / Emotional Limits
A Final Thought on Her Limits
WARNING: KRAKKENS, ALCOHOLICS, DRUG USERS, FISCAL FAILURES, AND FIN-DOMMES
FINAL WORDS
REAL MESSAGES (GOOD, BAD, AND VERY BAD) SENT BY SUBMISSIVE MEN TO REAL DOMMES THROUGH BDSM DATING WEBSITES
GET READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP IN YOUR BDSM RELATIONSHIP!
DO YOU NEED ADDITIONAL ASSISTANCE? WellHeeledDominatrix.com can help!
ALSO BY SLAVE DRAGOS:
ENERGY and BDSM: Exploration of a Deeper Experience (ISBN: 978-1-63492-413-9)
Most men who seek a Dominant woman strike out – over and over again. Why? The answer is simple. They have competition. LOTS of it! For every truly Dominant woman, there are countless men seeking to connect with her. Most of these men are simply ignored. Many of them even get "blocked." This book will explain the reasons why.
As a submissive man, all YOU have to do is be better than the competition. And, IT'S NOT DIFFICULT!
The Domme of your dreams IS out there and a Dominant/submissive relationship IS attainable for you! Stand head and shoulders above the other submissive men who are seeking to bow at her feet. You can easily come out on top using the secrets shared in this book.
Using a business-plan approach, Slave Dragos shares the wisdom he has acquired from over 30 years in the BDSM community, both as an active participant, and an event organizer. You will learn how to easily and successfully attract your perfect Domme.
Interwoven in these easy-to-follow instructions, Dragos shares his own personal experiences, as well as stories from the many Dommes he has known and played with over the years.
And, finally, read actual solicitations received by real Dommes from desperate submissive men on BDSM dating websites – the good, the bad, and the very bad – along with Mistress Oasis' personal comments about each.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
FOREWORD BY MISTRESS OASIS
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
PART I - YOUR SUCCESSFUL FORAY INTO THE REAL BDSM COMMUNITY
CHAPTER 1 - A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE BDSM COMMUNITY
The BDSM Underworld
BDSM Goes Online
Online BDSM Personals
The BDSM Social Juggernaut - FetLife.com
CHAPTER 2 - REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS OF THE BDSM COMMUNITY
CHAPTER 3 - REALITY VS. FANTASY
CHAPTER 4 - THE BIG SECRET? UNDERSTANDING WOMEN!
CHAPTER 5 - DON'T BE "THAT GUY"
CHAPTER 6 - ELIMINATING TUNNEL VISION
Balancing Your Needs with Hers
PART II - PREPARING TO LAUNCH
CHAPTER 7 - TRUMPING THE COMPETITION
CHAPTER 8 - ARE YOU AN UNPOLISHED PRODUCT?
Are You Comfortable with Your Submissive Side?
Physical Fitness
Intellectual Fitness
Spiritual Fitness
Sexual Discipline
CHAPTER 9 - YOUR BUSINESS PLAN
Product
Marketing Strategy
PART III - MARKETING
CHAPTER 10 - ONLINE MARKETING
FetLife.com
Not Having Any Luck Online? Here's Why...
Your Online Profile is Your "Brochure"
Photos
Final Dick Pic Rule – No Exceptions!
What's next?
"Likes," "Loves," and "Thumbs"
Posts, Writings, and Comments
Discussions, Chat Rooms, and Other Public Interactions
CHAPTER 11 - MAKING CONTACT
Messaging Mistresses
THE #1 RULE TO WRITING BETTER "FIRST CONTACT" MESSAGES
The Online Courtship
Keep the Conversation Moving
Moving Toward Your First Meeting
CHAPTER 12 - OFFLINE MARKETING
Entering the Community as a Single Sub-Male
Real Events = Real People
Munches
Conventions
BDSM Clubs
Sponsored and Private Play Parties
Making a Good Physical and Mental Impression at Munches
Lights! Camera!! … MARKET!!!
Interacting Outside of Your Comfort Zone
Real-Time Closing
PART IV - YOUR FIRST ONE-ON-ONE MEETING!
CHAPTER 13 - DON'T SCREW IT ALL UP NOW!
CHAPTER 14 - MOVING FROM FRIENDSHIP TO PLAY PARTNERS...OR SOMETHING MUCH MORE
CHAPTER 15 - NEGOTIATIONS
Keep a Level Head!
Negotiation Points
Health Risks
Status
Safe Calls
Limits
Physical Limits
Mental / Emotional Limits
A Final Thought on Her Limits
WARNING: KRAKKENS, ALCOHOLICS, DRUG USERS, FISCAL FAILURES, AND FIN-DOMMES
FINAL WORDS
REAL MESSAGES (GOOD, BAD, AND VERY BAD) SENT BY SUBMISSIVE MEN TO REAL DOMMES THROUGH BDSM DATING WEBSITES
GET READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP IN YOUR BDSM RELATIONSHIP!
DO YOU NEED ADDITIONAL ASSISTANCE? WellHeeledDominatrix.com can help!
ALSO BY SLAVE DRAGOS:
ENERGY and BDSM: Exploration of a Deeper Experience (ISBN: 978-1-63492-413-9)