Driving to Thermae

a man’s guide to get back to where he once belonged

This writing is about the art of life, about the nature of the role women have fashioned for themselves next to men, about how women attempt to manage their destiny in a world constructed by men, and about where men fit into women’s lives. It is also about how women run life itself. The book is written for men but women might want to read it, too, if they want to know what men are about. But while it is written about both sexes, it is the male view of life with women that predominates the book’s observations and information. Only men can say what women are for them. Men need a new starting point about women that involves more than just attractiveness, beauty and sexual desire. Men need a starting point that they believe in, not one that has been conceived by women or on their behalf by social/sexual counsellors to achieve the preservation or repair of already foundering relationships. If the reader is seeking simple answers as to how to meet women, or get them into bed this book will not help you. This book is as much about you as it is about women.