Body Language

The Unspoken Mode Of Communication

It is your preference whether or not to listen or otherwise not tune in to someone talking. You listen when needed and desired to, but do other folks see you as a good listener? Listening skills are crucial once and for all relationships and therefore are also a vital skill in lots of professions, particularly the helping professions. Whether you're maintaining a happy marriage relationship, counseling someone with problems, or coaching people in your team for business success, good listening skills lead others to feel much more comfortable. They have more confidence in you and hold you in higher esteem. 
 
 You might not realize how important the human body language is, when others view you. It is even more important that your particular words. So, what says 'good listener' and inspires in other individuals who talk with you the confidence that you actually are listening? Your body language, of course! Even although you really are listening to every word, you'll not be viewed as a great listener unless you have the best body gestures. 
 
 An unhealthy listener has many among these traits -leans away if not turns away slightly, arms folded, maybe a bit of impatient toe tapping, and sometimes looking elsewhere. Or, if someone starts to read then you know without a doubt they're not listening! And undoubtedly should your body gestures suggests you don't would you like to listen, the other person will feel less comfortable talking with you and will also be less likely to want to confide inside you. This is an excellent recipe for creating distance and miscommunication in a relationship.